Seduction is a natural process of intimacy, you have to be truly intimate with yourself, than you will be able to create bridges between your comfort being you and her small, medium or big insecurities. When you do this, your comfort with yourself will liberate her from her lack of comfort not only with you but with who she is. Confidence is key when it comes to attracting women.
In Search of the Alabaster Girl – Episode 2
(It takes 8-48 hours) We will try by our best to have download link on time. One immportant thing, you can Online Chat with me and receive download IMMEDIATELY. When she happens to catch your eye, you realize that her beautiful face is beaming with the glow of a woman who is captivated by your presence as a man. And when you hold her, she settles into your grasp as if she hopes you will never let go. No, I’m not offering any money, but it would be fun and maybe i could help you out somehow in the future. People you love will break your heart, disappoint you, die on you in your life.
That’s just my own slightly abstract interpretation though. Loads are bang material, very few are GF material. I bumped in to a hot young thing in the club a few weeks ago. She was one of the best looking birds in there, but when I got talking to her, she was easily one of the most boring people I’ve met for a while. He says that many women are hot, but few are beautiful. But if you’re just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – then skip this.
Alexandru Nicolita – Art of Attraction and Seduction
Sometimes the nuggets are buried in there. Maybe you only find one, but that’s one more for the stack. I am starting to take notes on my favorite articles because most of the time, PUA articles can be long as hell and only have a few nuggets buried in them. Since 2009 I’ve coached clients ranging from Olympic gold medalists and billionaires, to people who simply want more out life.
It really is a beautiful masterpiece. However this book gets five whole pandemic stars for pure entertainment value. It stuck with me for a solid 3 weeks after I read it just because it was so novel in content. As far as literary value, it gets no stars. But as a collection of stand-alone quotes, I found it unexpectedly entertaining and sometimes insightful. It was like the quote machine that kept on giving and giving.
For myself, who is already enjoying the company of beautiful women for a long time, It still gave me a lot of new inspiration and I can’t imagine living without some of his wisdom anymore. I wished somebody told me those things too, when I started my journey. There were no online seminars FatFlirts or discussions with Zan himself, and I’m sure the guy had a couple of free hours somewhere in those 90 days he could have spent with us. Not going to lie here, this fractured my respect for the guy. Hans did interact with the guys in the program, but his responses were quite short.
Many of the will only ever have been attracted to one type of guy; the cad/jock/jerkboy/musician/big mouth. Some of them aren’t too smart you know – dangle something shiny or fast moving in front of them and they’re transfixed. It’s a positive attitude and will create the right attraction with the right people. Most of all, it will make you a happier person. Showing honestly that you value others grows your own value exponentially. He therefore has a wealth of experience that you have yet to come by.
I started reading the second chapter, and there are a few examples given, a few stories from his life that demonstrate his approach. I really find his attitude refreshing, so different from a lot of the PUA stuff, which seems to be about hiding your interest. He comes across as more “authentic”, you might say.
A lot of the PUA stuff seems to be coming from a place of being butthurt, and being fearful that somehow, some way, some chick might manage to get one over on you at some point. Honestly, I can probably count on the fingers of one hand the number of women I regret letting slip out of my grasp, and as of last week, I’ve slept with 76 women. Let that be the benefit of experience from a older guy. By the time some bird from your past turns up again want a bit, you’ll be waist deep in sexy eligible women if you stay on the right path and don’t let failure hold you back. It’s important to embrace a lot of material and different perspectives. I like to pick and choose and try different things to find what works for me.
Patrick King – The Science of Likability
If you’re too quick to judge, this might come across as “fluff”, but if you look for the underlying message, you’ll see that there’s really no better way to understand it. He’s illustrating tropes that permeates the ages… The author has a mild obsession with red lipstick. You need to figure that out on your own. Maybe he is reserving that kind of detail for his next book. Most of the author’s techniques involve lots of winking and making eye contact for a little big longer than necessary.
It’s either too aggressive or too nice. The result is men who are confused and who seek guidance from pick up artists and the so called seduction community. These guys may be well intentioned but they encourage manipulation and show women as a trophy to be won rather than a person to build a relationship with. The feminist movement wanted equality but brought in sameness. That said, there were gems throughout the book. He was right that when we’re on our deathbeds, we’re not going to think about our material possessions but rather the memories we made.
In Search of the Alabaster Girl – Episode 13
He says to have the mind set that “all women are your women” also the age old quote ” a man who loves women is loved BY women” does not go unnoticed in his novel. My biggest concern is if his principals can be applied to the girls that I am typically around. I am 24 and a senior in college and the girls in my age bracket seem utterly clueless when a guy, that perrion describes to be a ladies man in his book, talks to them because he is genuinely interested. Some of them are in sororities some aren’t and they range from years old. Its as if they freeze or get scared or at times they may take it as if you are showering them with unwanted attention and validating them for no reason. Now she is back with him and i felt like I wasted soo much time now there are two girls who appear attracted to me and I am keeping them at bay even though i am interested .
Only be romantic with women that you really want to be with; nothing half-hearted. He exposes the disconnection our society has with connection; the cautious shields, artificial games, hidden agendas, then shows a way of being that frees you into real love and passion. I love how each chapter shows how unaware we are to the contradictions of our desires; fake displays of affection vs true desire; what we think we want vs what we actually want. The book is like a freak hybrid genre of self-help, fiction, autobiography, and celebration / mild objectification of women. It does not really make sense as a single narrative but works as a collection of quotes, some ridiculous, some amusingly obvious, and some quite insightful. It’s not a super awesome pandemic book because most of the author’s recommended techniques violate one or several social distancing guidelines and some of the descriptions can induce a yearning of the flesh.
There are currently members in over 30 different cities. For all the talk about becoming authentic, I don’t think the program is nearly deep enough. Zan’s philosophy is great, but to be honest I don’t find him to be that great a teacher.